Depending on which part of the internet you trust, Anna Faris appeared either exactly like herself or noticeably different when she attended the Scary Movie 6 premiere at the Paramount Theatre in Los Angeles earlier this month. Jack, her son, wore a black suit and walked the carpet next to her. Along with his daughter Margot, her husband, cinematographer Michael Barrett, also attended. Most accounts describe it as a cozy family moment. Additionally, it rekindled a dialogue that has followed Faris for years and that she has never made a significant effort to end. The topic of discussion is whether…
Author: Michael Martinez
A certain point appears in your early thirties, usually following the second relationship that ended with the same worn-out accusation or the third situationship that ended in failure. This is what you always do. At midnight, you find yourself scrolling through a podcast transcript or a therapist’s blog post while nodding along because, well, it seems like you’re “anxious attachment,” or “avoidant.” It has a name at last, regardless of the label. It’s a relief. Seldom is it. Therapists who have witnessed the explosion of attachment-style conversations on TikTok, Instagram, and self-help blogs over the past few years say that’s…
Once the boxes are packed and the other half of the closet is empty, a certain kind of silence descends upon the house. It’s not overly dramatic. It’s simply silent. And for many individuals entering their 40s and 50s, therapy truly begins to make sense during that period of silence—not as a means of preventing harm but rather as something more akin to an opportunity. It sounds almost inverted. After 40, divorce is meant to be a setback that you overcome rather than an opportunity. However, if you speak with enough therapists who focus on this shift, a pattern begins…
Actresses who simply age in public are subject to a certain level of scrutiny, which Joan Cusack encountered this past week. It had been eleven years since she had walked a red carpet. Then, on a Thursday night in London, she wore a high-waisted black pencil skirt and a clean white button-up to the Toy Story 5 premiere. Her hair was cropped short with wispy bangs, and she wore thick-framed glasses that sat low on her nose. People gazed. At first, some people didn’t recognize her. That’s the peculiar math of celebrity following a protracted absence. Cusack hasn’t exactly been…
Many men between the ages of 33 and 34 have a certain appearance. It’s not a panic. It’s more akin to wearing a work shirt while exhausted. Men’s mental health therapists report seeing it frequently these days, frequently coinciding with a promotion, the birth of a second child, or the filing for divorce. That expression remained unattended for a considerable amount of time, written off as a rough patch. Something was altered. In fact, more men in their 30s are entering therapy offices—sometimes for the first time in their lives—and they’re not always sure why it took so long. Strangely…
It’s almost startling to watch Simone Biles, of all people, reach for the word “dying.” This is a woman who has been defying gravity for twenty years, who has a skill on the uneven bars named after her, who left Tokyo in the middle of a competition and managed to make it appear like strength rather than retreat. Therefore, it was not the typical celebrity health update when she revealed that she had been on the verge of death in that flat, unadorned way people write when they’re still processing something. She provided scant details. A picture of her wristbands…
Every morning, she was the first person in the office. At midnight, she responded to emails. She attended every school play, kept track of everyone’s birthdays, and never, ever let anyone see her cry. She appeared to be someone who just had it together from the outside. She had been silently drowning inside for more than ten years. This is not an uncommon tale. Roughly one in five people born in 1970 had the highest levels of psychological distress of their lives in their 40s and 50s, according to a UCL study that followed over 28,000 adults across several generations.…
The NHS Health Check has a subtle peculiarity. A free, organized examination of your blood pressure, weight, blood sugar, and cardiovascular risk is one of the health service’s most sensible offerings. The issue is that you can’t get one until you’re forty years old. The system simply has nothing formal to offer you if you are 34, 36, or 38 years old, working long hours, eating poorly, and silently ignoring the fatigue that never quite goes away. By design, you are not a priority just yet. Every five years, adults between the ages of 40 and 74 are invited to…